You might be apprehensive about the upcoming Mother’s Day. You’re not sure what you’ve done to even deserve to be celebrated on that day. You make think that you haven’t done much to prove you’re a good mother. You may not feel like such a great Mama with how you’re feeling.
You may have been lost in a fog more than you liked. The lows seem to be greater than the high points. You may be finding yourself fighting back tears more often than you like or during moments that don’t make sense. Or even trying to summon every ounce of strength to just not fall apart in front of the people you love.
You do deserve this day, just as much as any mother/mother figure.
I’m here to remind you that this is just a small moment in the grander scheme of things. I think it’s easier to pick apart all the lower and bad moments from the good ones and carry them with you. Those good moments seem so faint when the weight of the bad moments make it hard to move forward. Those good moments, they are there.
The brief periods where you mentally prepare yourself with a quick prayer or pep talk and can make it out the door to work. Days where you would rather pull the covers over you but opt for a morning at the park with your kids. For a brief moment, you have the laughter of your kids and genuine smiles to give you more hope and give you another reason to keep moving forward. Those sessions with your doctor where you suddenly realize a major jump you’ve made in progress and that YES, you can do this. Yes, those good moments are there.
Some days are definitely better than others. Some days it’s easier to pull yourself from that fog. You really do deserve this day Mama.
You are fighting.
You are trying.
You are giving as much love as you can.
You’re trying to figure out how to cope and be present.
You ARE a loving Mama.
Happy Mother’s Day, you deserve this day, regardless if you’re trying to find ways to cope, are in the darkest holds of depression, or seeing positive results from everything you have been doing. Keep fighting as best as you can. Remember to celebrate the small victories because they begin to add up to bigger ones.
If you need immediate help, please call the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
If you are looking for pregnancy or postpartum support and local resources,
please call or email:
Call PSI Warmline (English & Spanish) 1-800-944-4PPD (4773)
or visit http://www.postpartum.net/